H.E.L.P. FRAMEWORK™ RESOURCE LIBRARY
Resources for Building a Better Way Forward
Books, tools, and ideas to help you put the H.E.L.P. Framework into practice.
Growth rarely comes from one book, one lesson, or one breakthrough.
Throughout my own journey, I have drawn from books, ideas, and practices that challenged the way I thought, helped me better understand myself, and gave me practical tools I could put into action.
Habits • Emotions • Leadership • Purpose
These are not resources you need to agree with completely or follow word for word. Use them with curiosity. Take what helps you grow, question what challenges you, and decide what deserves a place in the life you are building.
Why These Resources Matter
The H.E.L.P. Framework™ is designed to be lived, not just understood.
The resources on this page are here to help you go deeper into the four areas that shape how you move through life: your habits, your emotions, the way you lead yourself, and the sense of purpose that gives your life direction.
Some resources may help you build better routines. Others may challenge the way you think, help you understand your emotional patterns, strengthen your self-leadership, or reconnect you with what matters most.
You do not need to read everything here. Start with the area that feels most relevant to where you are right now.
HABITS
Build consistency, create supportive routines, and make helpful actions easier to repeat.
EMOTIONS
Understand what you feel, find emotional patterns, and respond with greater awareness.
LEADERSHIP
Strengthen self-awareness, personal responsibility, decision-making, and how you lead yourself.
PURPOSE
Explore meaning, values, direction, and the kind of life you want to keep building.
What You'll Find Here
Resources to support the work within each pillar of the H.E.L.P. Framework™
This library is designed to give you practical ways to keep learning, reflecting, and applying the ideas behind the H.E.L.P. Framework™.
You’ll find books and resources that can help you:
build stronger habits and routines
better understand your emotions and patterns
strengthen self-leadership and personal responsibility
explore purpose, meaning, and direction
challenge old assumptions and consider new perspectives
turn ideas into practical action in everyday life
You do not need to follow every idea or resource exactly. Use what helps, question what challenges you, and decide what belongs in the life you are building.
A Free Resource to Help You Go Deeper
Self-reflection is one of the simplest ways to build greater awareness of your thoughts, emotions, choices, and patterns.
This free guide gives you 10 practical ways to create more space for reflection in everyday life — so you can better understand yourself, respond more intentionally, and keep building the person you want to become.
Resources I Created From My Own Journey
Before H.E.L.P. became a framework, much of the work behind it was already taking shape through my own recovery, reflection, writing, and personal development.
These books and journals grew from that experience and are designed to help you reflect, build greater self-awareness, and put practical ideas into action.
Driving Out of Darkness describes the details of the horrific accident I was involved in, the frantic thoughts running through my head and the actions I took to cope with the debilitating trauma caused by the untimely death of a cyclist I had never met.
“Written 10 months after the accident, raw and emotional.” - Jacques Delorme
This unique journal is designed for men seeking a personalized approach to self-care, offering a comprehensive toolkit to foster mindfulness, gratitude, and personal growth.
“I designed the pages to match what I do every day.” - Jacques Delorme
This extended edition is the perfect companion to my acclaimed "My Self-care Journal - Teen Edition" and "My Self-care Journal - Men's Edition," creating a comprehensive trio to cater to every unique stage of life.
“Same as the other journals but no prompts.” - Jacques Delorme
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Continue the Work
The books below are organized around the four pillars of the H.E.L.P. Framework™. Each one offers a different perspective, practice, or idea that can help you go deeper in an area of your life you want to strengthen.
Start where you are. You do not need to work through them in order.
HABITS
Books about routines, behaviour change, consistency, discipline, environment, and sustainable practices.
Why I recommend it:
“To become a high performer, you need to seek clarity, generate energy, raise necessity, increase productivity, develop influence, and demonstrate courage. Brendon is really good and teaching these.” — Jacques Delorme
Why I recommend it:
“Darren Hardy's work explores how small, repeated decisions can produce significant results over time.” — Jacques Delorme
Why I recommend it:
“A powerful reminder that success is rarely built through dramatic breakthroughs, but through small choices that are easy to do, and just as easy not to do. ” — Jacques Delorme
Why I recommend it:
“Thus book resonated with me because it challenged the idea that comfort is always the goal. It reminded me that growth, resilience, and self-confidence are often built by willingly stepping into discomfort rather than avoiding it.” — Jacques Delorme
Why I recommend it:
“This book highlights how our choices, attitudes, and actions influence far more people than we often realize. It reminded me that personal growth is not just about improving our own lives, but also the impact we have on our families and communities.” — Jacques Delorme
Why I recommend it:
“Offers a simple way to interrupt hesitation and take action before doubt takes over. It reminded me that confidence often follows action, not the other way around, and that small moments of courage can create significant change over time. ” — Jacques Delorme
EMOTIONS
Books about emotional awareness, trauma, vulnerability, regulation, relationships, and understanding patterns.
Why I recommend it:
“It challenged the belief that vulnerability is a weakness and instead showed it to be a source of courage, connection, and growth. It reminded me that healing often begins when we stop hiding our struggles and allow ourselves to be seen as we truly are.” — Jacques Delorme
Why I recommend it:
“Showed how easily we can become trapped in our thoughts, worries, and assumptions instead of fully engaging with the present moment. It reminded me that greater awareness creates space between our emotions and our reactions, allowing us to respond with intention rather than simply operating on autopilot.” — Jacques Delorme
Why I recommend it:
“Reminds us that lasting peace is not found by changing our circumstances but by changing how we relate to the present moment. It challenged me to slow down, pay attention, and recognize that much of life unfolds in the simple moments we often rush past.” — Jacques Delorme
Why I recommend it:
“Reframes mental strength as a collection of choices rather than a personality trait that some people simply possess. It reminded me that resilience is built by developing healthier ways of thinking, responding to adversity, and taking responsibility for our growth, even when life is difficult” — Jacques Delorme
Why I recommend it:
“Challenged me to recognize that I am not my thoughts, emotions, or experiences, but the observer who notices them. It offered a powerful perspective on how greater awareness can help us respond to life with more peace, freedom, and intentionality rather than being controlled by our internal reactions.” — Jacques Delorme
Why I recommend it:
“Challenged the tendency to live in the regrets of the past or the worries of the future instead of experiencing the present moment. Reminded me that peace, clarity, and personal growth become more accessible when we learn to focus our attention on what is happening right now rather than on what has already happened.” — Jacques Delorme
LEADERSHIP
Books about self-leadership, responsibility, identity, decision-making, resilience, boundaries, and personal agency.
Why I recommend it:
“Offers a simple yet powerful framework for living with greater self-awareness, integrity, and personal freedom. It reminded me that much of our suffering comes from the stories, assumptions, and judgments we carry, and that changing how we think can transform how we experience life.” — Jacques Delorme
Why I recommend it:
“Highlights that setting healthy boundaries is not selfish but essential for protecting our wellbeing, priorities, and relationships. It reminded me that every meaningful "yes" often requires the courage to say "no" to things that pull us away from the life we want to build” — Jacques Delorme
Why I recommend it:
“Highlights how our beliefs about ourselves often have a greater influence on our success than our abilities alone. It reminded me that growth begins when we stop seeing challenges as proof of our limitations and start viewing them as opportunities to learn, adapt, and become stronger” — Jacques Delorme
Why I recommend it:
“Emphasizes that lasting success is built on principles, character, and intentional choices rather than quick fixes. It reminded me that personal growth begins with learning to lead ourselves effectively before we can positively influence others” — Jacques Delorme
Why I recommend it:
“Challenges the idea that success is about winning and instead suggests that the goal is to keep growing, learning, and contributing over the long term. It reminded me that a meaningful life is not built by comparing ourselves to others, but by staying committed to a purpose.” — Jacques Delorme
Why I recommend it:
“Emphasizes that lasting change begins when we take responsibility for our decisions, beliefs, and actions instead of waiting for circumstances to improve. It reminded me that we often have more influence over the direction of our lives than we become intentional about who we are becoming” — Jacques Delorme
PURPOSE
Books about meaning, values, direction, contribution, fulfilment, and living intentionally.
Why I recommend it:
“Illustrates that even in life's most difficult circumstances, we retain the ability to choose our attitude and find meaning in our experiences. It reminded me that purpose is not something we discover only when life is going well, but something that can help us endure and grow through adversity.” — Jacques Delorme
Why I recommend it:
“I saw the TEDx talk first then HAD to read the book. Lasting motivation comes from having a clear sense of purpose, not simply pursuing goals or outcomes. It challenged me to think less about what I do and more about why I do it.” — Jacques Delorme
Why I recommend it:
“Provides a practical process for uncovering the deeper purpose that gives meaning to our work, relationships, and personal growth. It reminded me that when we are clear about why we do what we do, our decisions become more intentional and our direction becomes easier to maintain during difficult times.” — Jacques Delorme
Why I recommend it:
“Challenges the belief that success comes primarily from putting ourselves first. It reminded me that generosity, service, and helping others can create meaningful relationships and opportunities while still allowing us to maintain healthy boundaries.” — Jacques Delorme
Why I recommend it:
“Encourages us to look beyond external success and focus on developing greater self-awareness, purpose, and inner peace. It reminded me that many of the answers we seek are found not by doing more, but by slowing down, reflecting, and becoming more intentional about how we live.” — Jacques Delorme
Why I recommend it:
“Highlights the powerful connection between our thoughts, our choices, and the direction of our lives. It reminded me that lasting change often begins by examining the beliefs we carry and recognizing how they shape the person we are becoming.” — Jacques Delorme
Personal Development Apps
Ultiself: If you’re ready to stop guessing about your personal growth and start building the version of yourself you know you’re capable of becoming, Ultiself is the tool that makes it happen. Unlike generic self-help advice, Ultiself uses smart, science-based habit building to create a personalized roadmap for your success. It shows you exactly which habits strengthen your energy, focus, confidence and productivity—then guides you step-by-step to actually build them. If you’re serious about transforming your life instead of just thinking about it, Ultiself is the upgrade your personal development journey has been waiting for.
“I have used this app every morning for 4 years. Perfect for getting focused for my day.” — Jacques Delorme
Biohacking app that helps build a routine:
Helps you create an optimal routine
Track progress daily
Powerful, life changing content
User friendly interface
Elevate is a popular mental fitness and brain training app designed to improve focus, memory, speaking, processing speed, and math skills through 40+ personalized games. Developed with educational experts, it adjusts difficulty over time to maximize results and tracks proficiency. It is available on iOS and Android.
Key Features & Benefits
Targeted Training: Games focus on reading, writing, speaking, math, and memory.
Personalized Workouts: Daily exercises are tailored to your skill level and target areas.
Progress Tracking: The app provides detailed performance reports and an Elevate Proficiency Quotient (EPQ) to track improvement.
Performance Monitoring: Helps you identify areas for growth and track your "mental sharpness" over time.
“I have used this app extensively to improve my brain function. I made it part of my morning routine. - Jacques Delorme
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